Top 5 Best Anal Sex Positions

Not everyone is into anal sex or are willing to try it. However, most of them are new to it. Besides, it takes a lot of sensitivity and the right anal sex positions for both partners to enjoy it.

From the Sexual Behavior in Germany survey, “4% of men and 17% of women reported having had receptive anal sex at least once.”

Preparing for anal sex

Before you engage in these anal sex positions, you should prepare yourself very well. This may mean warming up with your fingers or a butt plug. Anal training can take some time, but it can help you get used to the size of a penis in your butt.

The most important thing is to stay relaxed and aroused, especially if it’s your first time. Here are some ideas and tips to get you started:

• Both give consent
• Bowel irrigation before anal sex: the anal douche
• Don’t forget the lube
• Practice with an anal plug (or for the more advanced, you can warm up with a prostate vibrator)

More on how to prepare for anal sex.

When anal sex positions don’t work

Some anal sex positions may not be that convincing, or you may have a hard time getting into and holding the anal sex positions because it depends on your body shape, size differences, flexibility, injuries or disabilities. Therefore, here you will find some tips to get the most out of these anal sex positions.

• Maybe you’ve already experimented with anal masturbation. You may be more familiar and comfortable with a similar position for anal sex.
• If you have a big butt, you should try anal sex positions where your legs and butt cheeks are spread instead of squeezing them together. Either you or your partner can do this. And if your partner has a short penis, it helps to spread the cheeks then.
• If you’re a top, try to get as much leverage as possible. To do this, you can brace yourself with your feet or knees on the floor or the furniture underneath you. You can also hold onto the headboard, the back of your couch, or the armrest of a chair to get a good start.
• To make it easier for your partner to access your anus, you can place pillows under your butt, hips, or belly to change the angle of entry.
• The sphincter is much more resistant to penetration than the vagina, and some anal positions require more persuasion than others. Use your and/or his hands to guide his penis into your anus. Extra tip: If your partner has difficulty penetrating, it’s important to use plenty of lube. While you can get a little wet during the rim job, it’s not enough for anal sex!
• Many anal sex positions are easier when your partner is fully aroused. With a partial erection, he may not be able to get past the sphincter.
• If you love that fulfilling feeling, you can squeeze your butt and legs tighter.
• Don’t be afraid to try different things and please tell your partner what you like and don’t like!

When you take one of these positions during prostate massage, your partner has to say what he doesn’t like.

This is going to sound a little crazy, but….

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Some side effects are:

• Your partner will cancel dates with friends so they can spend more time with you.
• Other people may be jealous of your relationship.
• Your partner will look at you lustfully all the time and won’t be able to keep their hands off you.

Anal sex positions

When asked which anal sex position is best for anal sex, for some reason the doggy style position is always mentioned. Luckily, it’s time for a change. Here are the top 10 best anal sex positions for beginners, advanced and pros!

1. Piledriver position

Do you like it when your partner is in control? Then you’ll love the piledriver position! However, you’ll need at least a little flexibility and lower back strength.

The first step is to lie on your back and then allow your partner to grab your legs and push them back so that your ankles are next to your head. In this position, your partner squats over you and penetrates you anally with his penis or strap-on dildo.

2. The rear entrance

In this position you need to lie on your stomach. Depending on your preference, you can keep your legs together or apart. Your partner will then lie directly on top of you, facing the same direction, and penetrate you.

If your partner has a big belly, there can be a lot of weight and pressure on you during anal intercourse in the rear entry position. Therefore, you should make sure that your partner knows to be careful if this is the case.

3. High chair position

To perform the High Chair with your partner, all you have to do is sit on a chair and stick your butt out. Meanwhile, your partner stands, squats or kneels – depending on the height of the chair!

Then she/he enters you and can either hold onto your waist or shoulders to help you push in and out. Two quick notes about the high sitting position:

It’s best if you sit on a chair that’s high enough so that your partner can stand up straight when he enters you.
Also, it’s also best if you stand in front of a wall/kitchen table so you can push against your partner and brace yourself at the same time.

4. Spoon

Spooning with your partner is a less powerful version of the Standing (Bodyguard) anal sex position. You do everything you would do in the bodyguard position, except you kneel instead of standing.

Switching from doggy style to spooning and back again is very easy. To keep your balance, it’s a good idea to reach back and hold onto your partner. If you’re into harder sex, you should try spooning in front of a wall so you can brace yourself against your partner.

5. The boss thing

Conclusion

The butt is an erogenous zone for both men and women. Anal sex is very popular in porn – and is becoming increasingly popular. However, people need to be informed that despite all the potential pleasures of the butt, anal sex is one of the riskiest forms of sex when it comes to spreading STDs, including HIV. Everyone deserves proper sex education – it makes our sexual experiences as safe, enjoyable and satisfying as possible.We want anal sex to be fun!

Also, it’s important to always consent when having sex with your partner. This also applies to anal sex!